I wasn't being sarcastic. Look at the pictures yourself. I am a huge fan of John's, I see somethng not right even if you don't. I saw it with Elaine a few years ago. Sorry.
I agree shielafarmer. The reason its not right is because Johns past track record with relationships or marriages have been already proven not good. And I feel that this is another "rebound or fix me." Until that empty void in Johns heart gets healed no person place or thing is going to fix him. Course I have already posted my posts concerning this issue in his life. I had the same kind of life with men. Its not a good road to trudge down on. Only John can say "enuf is enuf." Evidently John hasn't bottomed out yet when it comes to his relationships with women. This looks like another one stopping him from doing that. But John doesn't have to bottom out if he doesn't want to. To not hit bottom would mean time out from getting involved with anyone, trust God and clean house.
I read a post from some girl who claimed she knew John from when they grew up with each other. Now what she said on the post could be a rumor, becuz we all know that rumors live a life of their own. She said John told her that with women he doesn't stick around one woman long enough and then he just bumps them off. So looking at his past track record seems like she is telling the truth.
The only 3 stable women he had in his life as far as she was concerned was his grandmother, his mother and Elaine. She said that it was heartbreaking what happened with Elaine and the boys. She mentioned that she told him this too.
Thats ok John, my prayer partners and I are still praying for you!!!
keep the faith / peace & love